Firstly I love this game so much but have started getting into xbox live games for this.

Questions:
At the start of a game, I am allocated say a Aircraft carrier and a Shipyard. Half way through a game I seem to loose control of one or both of these despite them still being in the game. The other teamate gets full control. I then end up as a Spectator. - What did I do wrong?

Secondly, how many times are you allowed to build subsequent ships? Appears to be only once more.

Finally, I had only some torpedo bombers left under my control, and I sent them back to re-load, and then I ended up loosing control of them- they went automatically to my teamate.....

Can anyone shed some light on these?

Cheers

Marcus