ok 3 things, How do i get passed the cat in the crossroads, how do i dance with a sim when there is not any means of music except in the resesrch base, and where is the cuddle mode?????? i cant go any further without that!!

To get past the cat at the crossroads you need to use a leaf that you find in creepy hollow after completing the shamans goals.

You don't need to dance to complete story mode but you can buy a radio in barter mode (buy mode).

To cuddle another sim you need to get their relationship score up.

I already explained it in another thread sapphire

But yeah do what she said.