I just can not figure out how to equip 2 wepons at once. Im the Barbrian, have all my stats for carryin 2 wepons, how do I do it

You select one weapon, and then move over another weapon in the menu and press L1 (or R1 can't remember exactly) to equip it "offhand." You will then be weilding 2 one-handed weapons at once.

If you are dorn, you can do the same thing with two handed swords, after you gain the ability.